Dear NaijaPoint,
At a recent family wedding reception at my brother-in-law’s house, I had a really drunken night with a few family friends, including my brother-in-law. Things got out of hand and we ended up having sex in a spare room in his house, I regretted immediately as I’m very happy with my husband.
We have two children and are planning for the third. Now, I’ve just discovered I’m pregnant and there is a good chance my brother-in-law could be the father.
Should I discuss this with him before I tell my husband?
Dunni(real name withheld),
By e-mail.
Dear Dunni(real name withheld),
I can’t make this decision for you. If you come clean, you’ll destroy your marriage and your husband’s family as there’s no guarantee your brother-in-law would keep quiet once he knows. If you keep quiet, then you’ll have to live a lie, and since your brother-in-law and your husband are blood brothers, you might just get away with it.
You need to do a bit of soul-searching though. You say you’re happy with your husband, but if you were, things wouldn’t have got out of hand with his brother.
Whatever you decide about the baby, you need to take a hard, long look at what’s happening in your marriage.
Admin NaijaPoint.
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At a recent family wedding reception at my brother-in-law’s house, I had a really drunken night with a few family friends, including my brother-in-law. Things got out of hand and we ended up having sex in a spare room in his house, I regretted immediately as I’m very happy with my husband.
We have two children and are planning for the third. Now, I’ve just discovered I’m pregnant and there is a good chance my brother-in-law could be the father.
Should I discuss this with him before I tell my husband?
Dunni(real name withheld),
By e-mail.
Dear Dunni(real name withheld),
I can’t make this decision for you. If you come clean, you’ll destroy your marriage and your husband’s family as there’s no guarantee your brother-in-law would keep quiet once he knows. If you keep quiet, then you’ll have to live a lie, and since your brother-in-law and your husband are blood brothers, you might just get away with it.
You need to do a bit of soul-searching though. You say you’re happy with your husband, but if you were, things wouldn’t have got out of hand with his brother.
Whatever you decide about the baby, you need to take a hard, long look at what’s happening in your marriage.
Admin NaijaPoint.
What's your suggestion?.
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